Death events that
don’t kill the vibe.

Talk about death without feeling anxious or awkward.

I organize creative events that help you start the conversation. Talking about death is not just about the end, but is actually the beginning of surprising conversations, encounters, or new adventures.

Previous events

  • Your Last Party. Forest Edition.

    Something is coming. A once-in-a-lifetime experience in the forest. About the one topic we all keep avoiding.

    Do you want to be the first to hear about it? Put your name on the list. There are limited seats available.

    Event date: 24th of April
    Time: 18.30-22.30
    Location: Still a secret :)

    This event will be in English.

    Join the waitlist
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  • Foto door Lotte Kwant
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  • Foto door Lotte Kwant

What others say

  • A very special evening! From start to finish. The question cards at the beginning ensure that you immediately strike up a conversation with someone. A nice icebreaker. A very cool location and the food was truly delicious. I had some wonderful conversations at the table. There were certainly some emotional moments as we exchanged stories and experiences. In addition, we also laughed a lot. It's great that both can go hand in hand. I liked that everyone's chosen music was played during dinner. It also inspired me again regarding what kind of music I would like to play at my own farewell.

    Lot Schneider

  • What a lovely evening it was! I not only enjoyed delicious food and drinks, but above all, I had some wonderful conversations. It wasn't a 'heavy' evening; on the contrary, it was a very relaxed way of talking (and laughing!) about a subject we often try to avoid. I went home with new insights and now know exactly what I want and don't want. The conversations I had during this night continued at home with my loved ones, meaning the subject of 'death' is no longer a taboo in our home. Wonderful! Highly recommended!

    Manon

  • It was incredibly special! Beforehand, I was a bit anxious and afraid that it would be very heavy and emotional (and at times it was indeed confronting), but above all, it was incredibly connecting! Talking about essential but also vulnerable topics creates a bond. The perspectives of all kinds of people, especially those outside my bubble, on this subject are very valuable to me.

    Anne Zwart

  • Eva organizes a very special evening where you reflect on the thought of “death.” You engage in conversation with others about this, which leads to beautiful discussions. It is not heavy or dramatic, but special and enriching. Additionally, we sat at beautifully set tables and were served a delicious (vegetarian) dinner. All in all, an evening I look back on with pleasure and can recommend it to everyone.

    Anouchka Scholten

  • Talking to strangers about death is talking about the importance of present life. Strangers give you new ideas and perspectives. This event was varied and also well guided, so I kept talking enthusiastically about death.

    Ricus Franken

  • This death event was a unique experience that I recommend to everyone, for engaging in conversation about death, but also about life. The evening was well-structured, and there was a good balance between a serious and a lighthearted atmosphere.

  • The Lunch for Mortals was a special and surprisingly light experience. The atmospheric location and the delicious vegetarian lunch provided a warm backdrop for a subject that is rarely discussed so openly. Thanks to the thought-provoking, open questions, beautiful, honest conversations about death emerged during the lunch, and it was precisely this that created a genuine connection between the participants. Eva is a sparkling facilitator who presents this loaded theme with such ease and lightness that pausing to reflect on it together almost becomes a celebration.

    Janneke Vens

  • It was a special and valuable experience to come together with a group of strangers and speak openly about death. In a short time, a sense of genuine connection and familiarity developed, which I found to be very special. The setting invites reflection and real conversations that you do not easily have in everyday life. I would recommend everyone to participate in a Lunch for Mortals.

    Joyce van Saane

  • This lunch helped me overcome a hurdle. Talking about the last party can also be a cheerful conversation. Eva creates an atmosphere where seriousness, depth, and cheerfulness go together very pleasantly.

    Arlette

  • Regarding death, we are all equal. That is a special starting point for an open, vulnerable, and funny conversation. Led by Eva, you pause to reflect on where we are all headed and what you do in the meantime.

    Bernadette

  • I could hardly wait to attend one of Eva's gatherings. It did not disappoint me. Exactly as I had imagined! I am an official fan.

    Chantal

  • What a wonderful evening! I went with two friends (it was a birthday present) and got to know them even better, and we discussed things we hadn't shared before. That was special! Furthermore, I met new people and gained new insights through the questions that were asked. It is such an important and logical topic to discuss! On top of that, Eva created a safe atmosphere and the food was delicious!

    Elvira Vroomen

  • The Lunch Club for Mortals is a gentle experience about the harsh reality that we all die.

    Abi Daruvalla

  • What a wonderful experience! We had great conversations with many different people and, in the meantime, also enjoyed a delicious dinner at a unique location!

    Romy

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Let’s talk about
our funeral
our last party.

We plan so much in life, but often forget one of the few certainties in our lives: our death and how we say goodbye.

Do you ever think about your final party and your wishes? And do the people who have to arrange it, often your family and friends, actually know that too?

Why?

By contemplating your inevitable ending, you also reflect more on life. What is important to you, and do you live accordingly?

By talking to one another about death and our final wishes, we get to know each other better during life. Furthermore, we normalize the conversation about loss, grief, and mourning, which we will all eventually have to deal with.

For all people who feel like:


What’s the point? I will be dead anyway.

Yes, you will be dead and you will leave your friends and family behind. Have you ever realized how they would feel when you’re gone?

Saying goodbye in a way that reflects your life could help your loved ones to deal better with their loss and grief. And yes, it will help them making decisions when they know what mattered to you (and what not).