Talk about death
without killing the vibe.

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Get a taste of the vibe

No grief therapy

A once-experience with tasty food and surprising conversations.

With strangers or
loved ones

Come alone or bring a parent, friend or partner to get them to know even better.

Deep,
not heavy

Guests leave with less fear and more connection. And yes, people actually laugh.

Sounds familiar?

You want to have that conversation with your parents or partner, but you can never find ‘the right moment’.

Talking about death can feel heavy and emotional. And yes, it is heavy when it’s at your doorstep. So that’s why we should start the conversation when it's not urgent yet. Because that's where the surprising, connecting and occasionally hilarious conversations happen.
Talking about death is also a conversation about life. What are your happiest memories? What really matters to you and what things would you want to do before leaving this place? This conversation helps you to get to know the people you love better, and creates momentum to raise a glass to the life you're living right now.
You don't need to be a professional to bring up death. All it takes is genuine curiosity about the other person. It might feel awkward at first, but mainly because we just don't do it enough. So let's start practicing!

Death events that don't kill the vibe

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Death events that don't kill the vibe 〰️

Start the conversation about death
before it gets serious.

Your Last Party.

A once-in-a-lifetime experience with a three-course dinner, challenges and surprising questions. You will experience that talking about death shouldn’t always feel like tough and heavy. We just need to practice a bit more.

At inspiring locations to get you out of your daily routine.

Wear the outfit you would like to wear at your own funeral last party.

Go to the event calendar

Your Last Party.
Delivered at home.

A private dinner about death at your own kitchen table. Not feeling like talking to strangers about our mortality? No problem! We will facilitate a private dinner with your loved ones.

You pick the guests. We take care of the rest.

On request: also available for organizations.

Your Last Party.
Festival edition.

The Your Last Party Compliment Crew at your festival. We lift your festival visitors up by handwritten compliments that inspire people to stop saving their best words for funerals.

Also possible: paint-the-death-sessions and interactive walks to inspire visitors.

What others say

A very special evening! From start to finish. The question cards at the beginning ensure that you immediately strike up a conversation with someone. A nice icebreaker. A very cool location and the food was truly delicious. I had some wonderful conversations at the table. There were certainly some emotional moments as we exchanged stories and experiences. In addition, we also laughed a lot. It's great that both can go hand in hand. I liked that everyone's chosen music was played during dinner. It also inspired me again regarding what kind of music I would like to play at my own farewell.

Lot Schneider
What a lovely evening it was! I not only enjoyed delicious food and drinks, but above all, I had some wonderful conversations. It wasn't a 'heavy' evening; on the contrary, it was a very relaxed way of talking (and laughing!) about a subject we often try to avoid. I went home with new insights and now know exactly what I want and don't want. The conversations I had during this night continued at home with my loved ones, meaning the subject of 'death' is no longer a taboo in our home. Wonderful! Highly recommended!

Manon
It was incredibly special! Beforehand, I was a bit anxious and afraid that it would be very heavy and emotional (and at times it was indeed confronting), but above all, it was incredibly connecting! Talking about essential but also vulnerable topics creates a bond. The perspectives of all kinds of people, especially those outside my bubble, on this subject are very valuable to me.

Anne Zwart
Eva organizes a very special evening where you reflect on the thought of “death.” You engage in conversation with others about this, which leads to beautiful discussions. It is not heavy or dramatic, but special and enriching. Additionally, we sat at beautifully set tables and were served a delicious (vegetarian) dinner. All in all, an evening I look back on with pleasure and can recommend it to everyone.

Anouchka Scholten
Talking to strangers about death is talking about the importance of present life. Strangers give you new ideas and perspectives. This event was varied and also well guided, so I kept talking enthusiastically about death.

Ricus Franken
This death event was a unique experience that I recommend to everyone, for engaging in conversation about death, but also about life. The evening was well-structured, and there was a good balance between a serious and a lighthearted atmosphere.
The Lunch for Mortals was a special and surprisingly light experience. The atmospheric location and the delicious vegetarian lunch provided a warm backdrop for a subject that is rarely discussed so openly. Thanks to the thought-provoking, open questions, beautiful, honest conversations about death emerged during the lunch, and it was precisely this that created a genuine connection between the participants. Eva is a sparkling facilitator who presents this loaded theme with such ease and lightness that pausing to reflect on it together almost becomes a celebration.

Janneke Vens
It was a special and valuable experience to come together with a group of strangers and speak openly about death. In a short time, a sense of genuine connection and familiarity developed, which I found to be very special. The setting invites reflection and real conversations that you do not easily have in everyday life. I would recommend everyone to participate in a Lunch for Mortals.

Joyce van Saane
This lunch helped me overcome a hurdle. Talking about the last party can also be a cheerful conversation. Eva creates an atmosphere where seriousness, depth, and cheerfulness go together very pleasantly.

Arlette
Regarding death, we are all equal. That is a special starting point for an open, vulnerable, and funny conversation. Led by Eva, you pause to reflect on where we are all headed and what you do in the meantime.

Bernadette
I could hardly wait to attend one of Eva's gatherings. It did not disappoint me. Exactly as I had imagined! I am an official fan.

Chantal
What a wonderful evening! I went with two friends (it was a birthday present) and got to know them even better, and we discussed things we hadn't shared before. That was special! Furthermore, I met new people and gained new insights through the questions that were asked. It is such an important and logical topic to discuss! On top of that, Eva created a safe atmosphere and the food was delicious!

Elvira Vroomen
The Lunch Club for Mortals is a gentle experience about the harsh reality that we all die.

Abi Daruvalla

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Talk about death without killing the vibe.

No grief therapy

With strangers or loved ones

Deep, not heavy

Sounds familiar? You want to have that conversation with your parents or partner, but you can never find ‘the right moment’.

I don't want to kill the mood.

I want to celebrate life, not cry all evening.

How do I even start? I'm not an expert.

Death events that don't kill the vibe

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Death events that don't kill the vibe 〰️ Death events that don't kill the vibe 〰️

Start the conversation about death before it gets serious.

Your Last Party.

Your Last Party.Delivered at home.

Your Last Party.Festival edition.

Talking to strangers about death is talking about the importance of present life. Strangers give you new ideas and perspectives. This event was varied and also well guided, so I kept talking enthusiastically about death.

This death event was a unique experience that I recommend to everyone, for engaging in conversation about death, but also about life. The evening was well-structured, and there was a good balance between a serious and a lighthearted atmosphere.

This lunch helped me overcome a hurdle. Talking about the last party can also be a cheerful conversation. Eva creates an atmosphere where seriousness, depth, and cheerfulness go together very pleasantly.

Regarding death, we are all equal. That is a special starting point for an open, vulnerable, and funny conversation. Led by Eva, you pause to reflect on where we are all headed and what you do in the meantime.

I could hardly wait to attend one of Eva's gatherings. It did not disappoint me. Exactly as I had imagined! I am an official fan.

The Lunch Club for Mortals is a gentle experience about the harsh reality that we all die.

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